Hopefully Our resolution for 2014

I've considered 2013 the year of improving my relationship.
After a rather rocky start to learning the rules of writing about love and relationships (short lesson: don't write about any problems about your relation online), I started to get in the swing of things a bit. In all honesty,after few bumps in the road,I finally get to know her more.

But then again, 2014 is going to be a whole new year, and it's looking like it will be a year full of challenges, adventures, and a little more stress on our trip. Because December 7th marks our very first special moment, and I am determined to keep our love going strong, I know we still on the very 2nd place. So in the spirit of the new year and there're perhaps I want to do next year...

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No. 1 To say "thank you" more

You may never know how two little words can completely transform your relationship until you try it. I admit that, like many couple or those who completely madly in love, focusing on all of the things that I do in our relationship (official birthday card, grocery shopper extraordinaire etc) while conveniently forgetting to notice everything that my beloved does. I am convinced that saying "thank you" more not only helps her feel appreciated and helps her know that I appreciate all that she does, but that it also helps me to notice all she does more as well.

No. 2 To have a little more fun

To have a little more fun. One of the first things to go in our relationship when I am stressed or feeling weighed down by the responsibilities of daily life. It seems like such a small thing, but the more we laugh and are able to find fun in everyday circumstances, the more connected we feel.

No. 3 To get healthy for each other

To get healthy for each other.Not to impress each other with our rocking hot bods, but to ensure our relation can actually last a lifetime. I know I can't work out with her, cause she work from 8 am-5 pm and still 5 -9 pm and frankly cause I had nothing to do yet rather than my script paper, I use my sweating time to catch up on the cheesy shows that I enjoy on my laptop so for us, getting healthy may be as simple as making sure the other has time to exercise. And I'm not talking a "Hey, honey, shouldn't you hit the gym?" but actual, scheduled time on the master family calendar to make sure it happens.

No. 4 To hang out more with other

To hang out more with other couples.I know that I sometimes being one of the most boring people you will ever meet in your life. I am rather introverted and prefer being home above all else,and you like to go out even thought you're so busy. But nonetheless, we need to make spending time (or heck, even finding) with friends more of a priority in our relationship. I think it would both strengthen our bond and help our relationship grow.

No. 5 To finish my degree

perhaps this is only for me, but I think I need to finish my degree and find a job soon. even though I know it also means later I won't be able to see her for 8 months or even more... But to set the very basic of our foundation for the marriage later.

For now I think it's all I wanted for us next year. 2014, and hope that our love will even grow stronger and there will always be no lies between us.